I think I'm like "typical" moms that worry about everyone else's birthday, except their own. If I "need" something, I will get it if I have the money. If I don't, I don't, it's no big deal. There has been 1 thing that I've wanted for a long time and I saved up and finally got it last week, so I really wasn't wanting/needing anything. I had mentioned recently that I needed to find a basket for my bike. I just never remember to find the bike store when I'm in town, since it's not something the big box stores carry, unless it's for a kids bike. Well, much to my surprise, someone went to the "big city" and found me one.
I did still have to order and go get my own cake! But he gets a pass on this one! ;)